A very simple test. You click on eight different blocks of color to make them disappear. Then you wait 110 seconds and repeat the process. That's it. From that, these were my results:
Your Existing Situation
Needs excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.
Your Stress Sources
"Wishes for freedom and independence, free from limitations and restrictions except for the ones he choices to give himself."
Your Restrained Characteristics
"Demanding and picky in his relationships, but careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements and this may decrease his chances of achieving his goals and ideas."
"Finds satisfaction in sexual activity, but is emotionally detached which prevents him from becoming too involved."
"Willing to become emotionally involved, but is demanding and picky when choosing a partner. Is careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements as this may decrease his chances of achieving his goals and ideas."
"He is able to find satisfaction through sexual activity, but can be restless and emotionally distant so he never really gets too involved with others."
Your Desired Objective
"If motivated, he will easily and quickly learn new skills. Is very intense person who seeks excitement and sexual stimulation. Wants others to see him as an exciting and interesting person, who is also charming and can easily influence others. Uses his charm to increase his chances of success and gain other people's trust."
Your Actual Problem
Longs the freedom to make his own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses his charm to deal with others and get what he wants.
Your Existing Situation
ReplyDeleteNeeds excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.
Your Stress Sources
"Feels empty and isolated from others and wishes to overcome this feeling. Believes life has more to offer her than what she was experienced thus far, and doesn't want to miss out on anything. she purses all her goals and dreams, fearful that any missed opportunity will cause her to miss out on even more. Quickly becomes an expert in any field she pursues and can sometimes come off as overbearing and nosy."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Emotionally distant even from those closest to her.
"Feels she is carry more than her share of problems. she is flexible and laid back, sticking to her goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
"Feels she is carry more than her share of problems. she is flexible and laid back, sticking to her goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective
"If motivated, she will easily and quickly learn new skills. Is very intense person who seeks excitement and sexual stimulation. Wants others to see her as an exciting and interesting person, who is also charming and can easily influence others. Uses her charm to increase her chances of success and gain other people's trust."
Your Actual Problem
Fears others will try to hold her back from achieving her goals and the things she wants. Puts on the charm and can be manipulative towards others hoping she can get them to do as she wishes and making it easier for her to reach her own goals.
Your Actual Problem #2
Longs the freedom to make her own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses her charm to deal with others and get what she wants.
Sounds like I'm hard-working, charming, and manipulative... and the sex is good, albeit emotionally distant. I guess I can live with that! lol
They got my sex part 180 degrees off, but were right about wanting independence.
ReplyDeleteThey said both of us are charmers and need "constant stimulation and excitement." I'll accept the charming part, but I'm a bit over the hill for much excitement these days, let alone constant stimulation.
Your Existing Situation
ReplyDelete"Works hard and is actively pursuing her goals; however, she feels unappreciated and doesn't see any reward for her efforts."
Your Stress Sources
"His stubbornness and will-power has become weakened due to current difficulties. Feels overworked and emotionally drain; as if all her work is for nothing and she is getting nowhere. The situation is very real to her and she wants to escape, but has no idea how to do so or how to even approach the situation rationally."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Is satisfied and finds contentment through sexual activity.
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Your Desired Objective
Very active imagination and may be prone to fantasies and daydreaming. Always dreaming of interesting and exciting things to happen to her. Is a charmer and wants to be admired for that.
Your Actual Problem
"Feeling tension and stress brought on by situations which are out of her control, leaves her feeling helpless, anxious, and in adequate. In order to build her self-esteem back up, she looks to others for recognition, respect, and encouragement. This can be a problem since she tends to blame others for her shortcomings. Searching for solutions that are geared toward her needs and self-consciousness.
Did they call me a HE in the second paragraph?
I think this is 100% off
ReplyDeleteThey refer to 'He' 'She' Him' 'Her' so evidently I am supposed to be a 'couple'. ??Sex is good!!! Was someone here I din't know about?
ReplyDeleteYour Existing Situation
ReplyDelete"Is strong willed and unwilling to take advice from others; however, finds himself currently in a dangerous situation which finding a solution should be top priority."
Your Stress Sources
"Response well to the world around him and wants to experience everything there is out there. Finds his existing situation frustrating and keeping him from learning new things. Needs patience, understanding, and a sense of security. Feels momentarily powerless to achieve his goals."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Giving more than he is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels he is being forced into compromising and even his close relationships leave him feeling emotional distant.
"Feels he is carry more than his share of problems. He is flexible and laid back, sticking to his goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.
"Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty."
Your Desired Objective
"Has too many problems and difficulties in his life at the moment, causing reckless and foolish decisions to be made. He needs to find a better escape before he causes his own self-destruction."
Your Actual Problem
"Feeling a lack of energy, he does not wish to be involved in further activity or give in to demands. He is feeling powerless causing him stress, agitation, and irritation. He reacts by becoming the victim and feeling as if everyone is out to get him. Demands with annoyance that he needs to get his own way."
Your Actual Problem #2
"His personality is such that he analyzes and examines everything with harsh judgment, which is viewed as an attitude of harsh criticism and disapproval. Fails to take into consideration all the facts when making his judgments. "
NOTE: This exam was unfair, of course it is going to say all of these things about me...the damn thing made me wait 110 seconds to do the damn same thing over again? What the hell.
MY GOD. How In the world could picking colors enter my mind and find all of these things that are TRUE?
ReplyDeleteSex was NOT even mentioned In my test. The rest was "Bug Nuts On" Just amazing.
ReplyDeleteYour Existing Situation
ReplyDelete"Insecure with himself, needs stable roots and emotional security. Seeking an environment which provides comfort and few problems."
Your Stress Sources
"Feels empty and isolated from others and wishes to overcome this feeling. Believes life has more to offer him than what he was experienced thus far, and doesn't want to miss out on anything. He purses all his goals and dreams, fearful that any missed opportunity will cause him to miss out on even more. Quickly becomes an expert in any field he pursues and can sometimes come off as overbearing and nosy."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Feels unhappy and isolated because he is unable to succeed in finding the cooperation and understanding he desires.
"Feels he is not receiving his fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. He keeps his emotions bottled up, leaving him quick to take offense to small things. He tries to make the best of his situation."
Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.
Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.
Your Desired Objective
"Does not feel there is any purpose in fulfilling his hopes and dreams, and therefore chooses the easy way and avoids conflicts. "
Your Actual Problem
Fear of being prevented from achieving the things he wants increases the need for security and freedom of conflict. Looking for stability and a relaxing environment.
Your Actual Problem #2
Searching security and a position in where the demands of others is not put solely on him.
I can't believe I posted this, but I guess It's only fair.
Your Existing Situation
ReplyDelete"Creative and emotional, looking for ways to further expand those qualities. Looking for a partner who enjoys the same activities. Seeking adventure and new and unusual activities."
Your Stress Sources
"Demands to be noticed by others as an important individual, needs attention and recognition. her current situation is leaving her dissatisfied. she feels she needs to make friends with those who hold the same high standards she does. Wants to stand out as someone at the top of her class and be admired by others. she needs to feel in control which makes it difficult to give of herself to another person. she feels isolated and alone but refuses to appear weak and continues to be emotionally distant from others in order to keep her attitude of superiority. "
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Current situations have left her feeling overwhelmed and tormented. Needs to avoid further activity or demands and concentrate on relaxing and becoming emotionally sound.
Feels as if too many walls and obstacles are standing in her way and that she is being forced to make compromises. she needs to put her own needs on hold for the time being.
Your Desired Objective
"Looking to make a good impression and be recognized for her achievements. she has a strong need to feel appreciated and look up to. she is very sensitive and will be hurt if she is rejected, unnoticed, or not given adequate acknowledgement."
Your Actual Problem
Afraid she will not be able to achieve the things she wants and demands others recognize and acknowledge this right to them.
Your Actual Problem #2
"Needs to be viewed and respected as an outstanding individual, in order to build her self-esteem and self-worth. Resists any type of weakness and sets high standards for himself."
disturbingly accurate.. it was hard to post it actually as it was very much me..
ReplyDeleteThis is a bit like reading your daily horoscope. You can find things that seem to fit and somewhat ignore those that don't pertain. Looks like most of us are lucky in love... at least on paper... or in our minds! ;>
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